The love is still there. The ideas just ran out.
Every couple hits the “idk, what do you want to do?” wall. Same couch. Same show. Same scroll. It’s not that you stopped caring. Nobody has the energy to plan something new after a long day.
This jar does the planning for you. Reach in, pull a slip, and suddenly you’re doing something you’ll still be laughing about next year.
Open the jar. Pull a slip. Go.
Pick a color
Choose by mood: a cozy night in, an adventure out, or something extra romantic.
Pull a slip
No debating, no scrolling, no “you pick.” The jar decides, and that’s half the fun.
Make a memory
Do the date and keep the slip. A year from now you’ll have a stack of stories.
A date for every kind of night
Color-coded so you can match the date to your mood, your budget, and how much energy you’ve got left.
Staying In
Pajamas on, phones down, no reservations needed.
Day Out
Sunshine, snacks, and getting out of the house together.
Night Out
Get dressed up, or don’t. Just go somewhere new.
Romantic
For when you want the butterflies back.
Lucky Dip
Total surprise. Brave enough to pull one?
Food Focused
Taste-tests, treats, and cooking (or burning) something together.
One jar. Two years of date nights.
weeks of dates
One slip a week is more than two years of new memories, all from one purchase.
No more “you pick”
The jar ends the back-and-forth instantly. No planning, no pressure, no one stuck being the “fun one.”
Costs less than one dinner out
Lots of the ideas are free or cheap, so date night doesn’t have to mean a big bill.
Cute enough to keep out
A glass jar with a bamboo lid that looks adorable on a nightstand and comes ready to gift.
Better than another “what should we do?” scroll
| Date Jar 💕 | Scrolling for ideas | Flowers & chocolate | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Ideas ready to go | ✓120 of them | ✕endless tabs | ✕ |
| Ends the “idk, you pick” debate | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Creates new memories together | ✓ | sometimes | ✕ |
| How long it lasts | 2+ years | one night | about a week |
| Fun to give & unwrap | ✓ | ✕ | ✓ |
| Buy once, use for years | ✓ | costs your night | ✕ |
Made by the couple behind the robot boyfriend 🤖💕
Hi, we’re BondieCam! Almost 3 million of you watch our robot boyfriend get into trouble every day. We picked this jar because it’s exactly what we do on our own date nights. Now it’s your turn. Watch us on YouTube →
“Haven't had the chance to try all of them yet, but we've already read through a few from each color, and the ideas are genuinely great! It's such a fun way to discover new things to do together, especially when you're in a newer relationship and still learning about each other. I love that it takes the pressure off coming up with date ideas yourself and makes planning something special so much easier. Definitely a creative idea!”
“We are enjoying every paper note! Sometimes you want to plan something fun together, but you just can't think of anything new to do. These little notes make it so much easier to find inspiration and turn an ordinary evening into something special. We love the variety of ideas and the excitement of choosing one without knowing exactly what we'll end up doing. It's such a simple but thoughtful concept, and we're so glad we got them. Thanks!”
“This is such a creative way to start dating your spouse all over again! We've been married for eight years, and like many couples, we sometimes fall into the same routines. We wanted something that would help us reconnect, try new experiences, and bring a little spark back into our relationship. These date ideas have been a wonderful way to make more time for each other and enjoy moments together that we might not have planned otherwise. We love having new ideas ready whenever we need them, and it's been such a fun reminder that dating shouldn't stop after marriage. It definitely didn't disappoint us!”
Flowers last a week. This lasts 120 dates.
It’s not just a present. It’s a promise to keep showing up for each other, one slip at a time. Watch their face when they realize what’s inside.
Our promise to you
If your jar arrives damaged or isn’t what you hoped, reach out and we’ll make it right. The full details are in our refund policy.
Good question
What exactly is inside?
120 date idea slips, color-coded into 6 categories (Staying In, Day Out, Night Out, Romantic, Lucky Dip, Food Focused), in a glass jar with a bamboo lid.
Are the dates expensive?
Not at all. Lots of them cost little or nothing, like picnics, pillow forts and movie nights. Pull from “Staying In” when the budget’s tight.
Does it work for long-distance couples?
Yes! Save the “Day Out” and “Night Out” slips for visits, and do the “Staying In” ones together over FaceTime: same movie, same snack, same time. It also gives you something to look forward to between visits.
Is it a good gift?
It’s one of the easiest gifts to give: anniversaries, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, or just because. It works whether you’ve been together 3 months or 30 years.
How long does shipping take?
Delivery times for your location are under “Shipping Information” at the top of this page.
Your next favorite memory is sitting in a jar.
Tonight could be another “idk, you pick.” Or it could be the night you both still talk about.